Come to think of it, relationships to me aren’t the same anymore. Its not about a title, a label, who’s in charge, how big the diamond is, whos turn is it, or who gets the big piece of chicken. It’s about compatibility, compromise, sharing, respect, partnership and love. Oh wait and communication… I could care less if I was labeled someone’s boyfriend, people in high-school have boyfriends, kids have boyfriends. Call me your man and I will call you my woman. Id never have a woman chase me while I do my own thing. I’d rather make her a part of my life, because when your with someone that makes you stop running, you grab their hand and take them with you. If your ever in a relationship that you want to last look your significant other in the eye and tell them how you feel. Why would you ever be in a relationship where you were so scared to let out everything. Tell them and then look into their eyes, because their eyes let you know how they truly feel. And when you know without a doubt that they love you back, nothing else matters. Not the cloths they wear, not the flaws, not even how bad their hair looks in the morning. Just…love. I wouldn’t change a thing about her.
This is exactly how I feel:
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”
— Bob Marley
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